[ad_1]
This is a follow up to the dilemma I posted in Dead Bedrooms, and it’s a positive. After multiple difficult conversations, my wife (F54) agreed to review a list of new sexual things I’d like to do with her.
We’ve been married 30 years and are almost done with raising our 4 children.
When I (M55) asked her desires or fantasies to try new things, she had nothing to add. Said she’s never viewed porn and wouldnt know what she desires. She did tell me that the time we had sex underwater in a swimming pool was super hot, but that was it for memorable sex with me
So I send her the list in an email with links to positions and activities that have illustrations, not real people, and she responded with the things she would not be comfortable with:
1. Anal play
2. Toys / vibrators
3. Toe sucking
4. Finding the g spot
5. Fuck face blowjob
The things she agreed to are new positions and variations on oral sex (She LOVES my oral skills).
Good news – she initiated some Wednesday “afternoon delight” where the new things we tried were her sitting on my face for the first time (heaven), and she gave me the 3rd blowjob ever!
She orgasmed twice.
I didn’t.
I have stupid erectile issues and have Viagra prescribed, but from the time she initiated, there was little time for the med to increase the blood flow. And I couldn’t satisfy her PIV….
After not having sex for months, I was totally satisfied giving her orgasms, but she felt bad I didn’t jizz.
So this was a start, but she said no to toys. But I went and bought a couples bundle from LELO that includes a cock ring for me. Maybe that will keep me up…
But she said no to toys and I don’t know how to tell her I really want to level up our sex life with toys for me and her (got her a LELO clit stimulator that can be used during sex while I use the cock ring)
Any advice on how to bring this up without her thinking I’m a “perv’?
She is a devoted Christian, and I think that’s feeding into her lack of sexual adventure….
[ad_2]
View Reddit by No_Segs_at_55 – View Source