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My boyfriend (20m) and me (19f) have been together for 2 1/2 years. We’ve always had pretty vanilla sex, at the start of our relationship we were kinda adventurous and did teasing in public/head in public bathrooms. Lately our sex life has stagnated quite a bit, we have vanilla sex like 1-2 a month (mostly because we’re semi-long distance.) He used to bring up the idea of me choking him while riding him which I liked but we never did. Earlier today he mentioned wanting to go to a sex shop to spice things up & that included the idea of getting a ball gag to use on him. I’m honestly not a very sexually confident person, I have a very hard time communicating what turns me on let alone taking a dominant position over him. Once over a year ago I was giving him a handjob and did dominate him, which i honestly absolutely loved, so I know I do like it. Can anyone give me any advice for venturing into more kinky sex/what I should do? How do I even use a ballgag on him? How can I be confident enough sexually to take on a more dominant role like that?
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