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Married 18 yrs but I am in good shape and take care of my body well. Husband says I am boring in bed and don’t do anything about it. He started discussing his fantasy with me in bed, that he talks to his ex-neighbor who is in almost 70, about me, and about sharing me, his wife, with this old neighbor.
He gets turned on by the idea, and says he wants me to meet this old person when we go to that town next year. I have been telling him I hate this fantasy, but have sucked it up, and continue the active sex life.
However, the other night I saw this old neighbor actually called him, and my husband was waiting for his call. It shocked me as I believed it was fantasy only.
My husband now says that he’s been telling me this all along that he actually talks about me with this neighbor, and that it really turns him on, and that he is doing it for me. But he discusses everything about me, and this creep neighbor also talks about what he will do to me.
My husband says I am overreacting and that I knew this all along and, he won’t call the neighbor if I don’t want it, but that he will not get turned on anymore by me as I don’t do anything. And is blaming me for leading to low sex going forward.
I am at my wits end. I want a good sex life but not like this where I am being discussed with a creepy old neighbor. I really hate the idea.
Please advise on how I can handle this situation. I feel like a failure.
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