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Note: As of yesterday we are no longer under this therapists care, I’m still left with these feelings I’m trying to make sense of.
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I’m not sure if this is the right place to express this but here goes. My husband(34M) and I’s(30F) last few sessions of couples therapy I’ve noticed the therapist (maybe around late 30-40F) coming on strongly to my husband. A little background: We’ve seen her for a little over a year. She specializes in perinatal/postpartum support and agreed to see us as a couple. There isn’t any major conflicts in our marriage, our focus was getting support on new parenthood.
I think it started within these last few weeks. I noticed my husband getting extra attention, his one-on-one sessions ran at least 30min longer. My one-on-one sessions usually ended several minutes early. Her demeanor during sessions with both of us completely switched from cold/neutral with me and charming and receptive with him. She has also been texting him privately when we usually communicate through a group text.
My husband is completely oblivious about all this. He shares his one-on-one sessions with me and says they usually discuss events from his childhood. After the session however she asks unrelated personal questions, like favorite movies and such and that’s what would make the sessions run longer. He also would tell me whenever she’d send him a text. The texts were usually somewhat related to the session, but lately turned into “how are you’s” “what are you up to” or “this (article/meme) made me think of you.” He didn’t usually reply but when he did it was polite and did not continue the conversation past 2-3 back and forths.
All of this has been…turning me on. Intensely. I’m insatiable and in the last few weeks we have had the most intense sex we’ve ever had in awhile and I can’t get enough! The husband definitely notices I’m hornier and wanting it more rough and more frequently but I don’t think he notices or relates it to our therapist taking an interest in him.
This is new territory for me. I don’t know why I’m feeling so turned on by all of this and it’s conflicting. I feel like I need to be upset, and I am. But I also feel secure in my relationship so I’m finding another person’s advances toward my partner enticing? Is this cuckold (cuckquean) territory? I don’t actually want my husband to flirt or cheat and have sex with anyone else, and he is not the type to do that. It also sucks our otherwise wonderful therapist is behaving unethically. I’m trying to make sense of my feelings about all of this and could use some insight.
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