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Someone I dated would get visibly irritable when we didn’t have sex (but had lots of foreplay); he said it’s just because of blue balls. Is that an actual thing or is he just making me feel bad for not going all the way?
Additional question: what does blue balls feel like for you?
Context: we would literally do everything but I wouldn’t let him go inside me because he has never gotten tested but has had multiple partners and is not always protected with them. We were not in a committed relationship so I felt it was risky.
EDIT: He has orgasmed and I never have during the time we were seeing each other! I never asked him to do anything for me; he just liked going down and fingering me so it kinda became an automatic thing whenever we saw each other. I never demanded it though I did feel bad that he was doing all that, so I also offered handjobs/blowjobs and let him jerk off in front of me so I know he came!!
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