How do I avoid getting blue balls

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I have had 2 heavy make out sessions with my gf so far, and 2 of them have ended with extreme cases of blue balls. I LOVE making out with her, but it just hurts a shit ton afterwards. How can I avoid this without having to make myself cum or avoid making out with her. Its actually going to have an impact on our relationship if it keeps going like this.