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The guy I’m seeing has brought up eating me out a couple of times. We haven’t had sex yet so he hasn’t seen me completely naked yet either but he’s said stuff like sitting on his face, sends me positive “jokes” and messages sometimes about eating pussy and when we make out he starts kissing my body going in the direction downstairs until I stop him.
I’m self conscious about the way I look downstairs and I’m scared that he’s gonna think the same about the looks of me as I do. I’m under the impression that men generally don’t like how vaginas look and that they mostly prefer one with no lips/very small ones. I’ve even considered surgery because of this. I think you’ve all seen the hate and mean jokes about vaginas, specially one with bigger lips.
I am scared that I would taste or smell bad. I am very hygienic and take care of myself properly, using soap made specifically for genitals etc but what if I still taste oddly weird? I’m sure everyone has a personal “taste”, and Im obviously aware that a healthy vagina still tastes sour because it naturally has a low PH. I don’t expect it to taste like candy. And what if there’s some smell that I myself don’t notice. I am aware there are conditions like BV that doesn’t always give symptoms and you can go without noticing it yourself.
I don’t know why he wants to do this. I don’t know if he’s under the impression that this is something “all women want” so he feels like he has to do it FOR ME. Like is he going on some type of autopilot? Because I don’t want him to do it if he’s just doing it because he thinks he “should” despite maybe secretly not liking it at all.
Sorry for such a long read. Any women who feel the same way? How did you deal with it?
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