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Okay everyone, so I know this sounds really weird and really stupid, but it is true so please bear with me.
I have a foot fetish and tickle fetish that both overlap, and the tickle fetish can be said to be a part of BDSM. I have also developed a CFNM fetish from the overlap of foot fetish and BDSM, for the humiliation of when I have bare feet while the woman wears socks.
Over the years, I have watched tickle challenges on YouTube with a feet part and tickle feet challenges on YouTube, and my fetishes are now even more linked, intertwined, and specific. I have a fetish for when we not only tickle each other’s feet, but actually talk about trying to see whose feet are more ticklish and teasing each other about our feet being more ticklish. It entails me losing as a punishment for being less dressed by having bare feet while she wears socks.
I do not know how to approach the topic with my girlfriend [24F] of 1 year. I want to be submissive with her, and set the situation for it, without actually telling her that I want to be submissive. That way it will be natural and organic and not staged, if she is not only being dominant just because I told her that I want her to be. I want it to be realistic so it will relate more to real life. The scenario will be more arousing if it is not role play.
Idk how normal it is for couples to verbally talk about or tease each other about being more ticklish. If I say that I want to see whose feet are more ticklish, I hope that she will enthusiastically want to, and not take off her socks, ask why I not put them on, or offer to take hers off. If she begins or asks if I want her to take hers off, Idk if can say “Oh you do need to do that.” but not seem hypocritical by having bare feet myself. Idk if I can give an actual convincing reason, and not actually say or hint that like being submissive, so that it is more real.
TL;DR: I do not know how to approach my fetish.
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