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I (28f) have been with my partner (29m) for just over two years. In the beginning sex life was on fire, frequent and lively. I am the type to like it at least 3x a week, ferocious and pretty kinky. He’s also a little kinky and was -was- on top of me for the first eh 6 months.
Now, I will admit there has been a lot of changes and stress in our relationship, we moved in together. I had a kid previously before hand, and then we had a child together, a car wreck, a lost job or two. And I understand that could dampen the flames of thee loins but I mean come on. Then stack on the other daily things; tired from work, we game a little too late, a kid is sick. But then again for a year and a half to go by with it getting so bad we’re we’re only having adult rendezvouses once every other month, with me asking for more, I fear something else is going on.
I have asked him what’s up, asked if he’s doing okay, ask about his health, mental health checks too; all responded “Yeah hunny I’m fine”. We have had pretty bad fights about it too. I make it clear what I want, what I’m lacking, and things get better for about 2 weeks then right back to begging for sexual attention.
This makes no sense, this has horrid grammar but I am feeling unwanted, unseen, invalidated but then like an asshole. Yes, my feelings are important having my needs filled is important but I don’t want to overly stress the situation and guide him to do things he doesn’t want to do.
Help?
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