Im [23M] scared of showing my sexually submissive side out of fear that women will not take me seriously when I’m dominant.

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I’ve always been sexually submissive. However, the majority of women I’ve been with are submissive (and in general). So, I learned how to be dominant, and am good at it. I’ve also come to enjoy aspects of dominance now, such that I would call myself a switch. 95% of the sex I’ve had has been me being dominant.

I’ve met a girl who’s also a switch. But I’m afraid of showing my repressed heavily submissive side, out of fear that she won’t be able to take my dominant side seriously anymore. Is this a valid concern? I feel that it is.. excerpt from https://www.nicknotas.com/blog/how-to-give-women-the-sex-they-really-want/ :
>Women don’t want a timid boy, they want a man who fucks them.

(Extra Question to other switches: how do you decide who’s being D or S when y’all are flirting online or sexting? I never know when I can be submissive without it being a turn-off. (A big fear of mine))

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