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My bf loves receiving oral. It’s probably his fav sex act. I used to love giving it, but I’ve realized I feel resentful towards him over how often I give him head. Whenever we do something sexual, I give him a long, thorough blowjob. He goes down on me for a few minutes about once a month.
I’ve tried talking to him about eating me out more several times. He insists he doesn’t dislike doing it and that there’s no hygiene issue, he just doesn’t find it that interesting. He’s told me he’ll do it more often, but inevitably it becomes a super rare occurrence.
I’m tired of asking him to do something he clearly has no interest in doing. I’m also tired of spending so much time and effort going down on him without reciprocation. He always gets me off, to be fair. But I’d rather just get him off in lower effort ways if he’s not interested in reciprocating oral sex.
I can’t think of a way to cut down my resentment other than to stop creating a situation where the frequency is so unequal between us.
**TL;DR: I go down on my bf every time we have sex. Is is manipulative to stop suddenly because I don’t really enjoy it when he doesn’t reciprocate?**
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