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I’ve met this woman on a dating app and we’ve been dating for a couple of months. She is a very nice person, pretty, we get along well although we are keeping things casual. But I’m slowly losing interest in her since wee seem kinda incompatible in the bedroom. I’m usually super worried if she’s comfortable , feeling good, asking what she likes etc. I’ll make sure to go down on her at least two times, to make sure she gets off at first and while I’m recovering for round 2, I’ll use my fingers as well a couple of times just to make sure. Since we’ve met she gave me head once, after I almost begged for it, I had to wear a condom (no problem there, she has the right to ask for it) but the way she treated like the worst fucking chore on the whole world was an immense turn off. It obviously wasn’t working for me so I ask if she could use her hands, she was like “yeah, I’m terrible at that”. So every time I end up having to finish myself off after an hour or so. She has never offered to focus on my pleasure (even if its just for a little while) like I do for her. I even made sure to be extra clean and neat not just down there but everywhere (two showers before meeting her) but that doesn’t seem to help it.
I think there is a lot more to a relationship than sex, but for me it seems like I’m putting way more effort and not getting much in return. Am I being unreasonable to consider not seeing her anymore?
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