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I have communicated to my bf countless times EXACTLY what I want and yet, he will not do it. I’ve said that I do not like oral, it feels weird, nobody knows what the hell they’re doing, I don’t want your slobber in/on me but he wants to keep trying. Meanwhile I’m staring at the ceiling playing connect-the-dot. I tell him “move here,” “push harder,” “keep it there” for fingers or toys. He’ll do it and not even 30 seconds later he’s taking his finger/toy away, so I’ll scoot him back over. After three times, the mood is just ruined. Please tell me why men never listen. This has happened with EVERY single guy I’ve been with. They like to use my hole like a pocket pussy and completely disregard my clit…even though he KNOWS that’s exactly how I get off. I truly do not understand—I’m at a loss. We are pretty good in every other part of life, but when it comes down orgasming, I’d rather be left to my own devices. It’s to the point where I’ll wait until he takes the dog out/gets in the shower/plays video games in the other room where I’ll take the opportunity to do it myself because I know it ain’t happening later lmao.
Truthfully, the next time we have sex I’d like to cum quickly, wash myself, and then go watch Netflix so that he doesn’t finish. I want him to physically know how it feels because apparently, the umpteen conversations we’ve had about it are not getting through to his noggin. I guess this is more so a venting session than asking for help. God, I hate being in a hetero relationship.
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