My (24F) boyfriend (26M) is embarrassed that he wasn’t able to complete his “responsibilities” when we tried having sex last night.

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Long story short, we tried having sex for the first time last night. Things had been going well until it came time for penetration. We were each other’s first time. I was nervous, but he was more nervous than I’d ever seen him before. I had sucked him off for about 2 minutes with no issues, but maybe should’ve gone for a little longer. Because we were eager it seemed to have PIV sex first, we did. He put on a condom without issue. He unfortunately was only able to penetrate me during PIV for about 2 minutes before losing his erection.

This issue was enough to get him to apologize to me nonstop. I told him it was okay and that I wasn’t insulting or critiquing him. This hurt his self esteem and I don’t know how else to comfort him. I obviously want to try having PIV sex again, but bringing it up to discuss is another challenge.

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