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My bf and I have been going out for almost 2 months. We never really had sex outside of him giving me oral or fingering me because he struggles with erectile dysfunction due to sexual trauma. He gave vaginal sex a shot 3x, each time cut short because of his ED. I recently told him I’d be willing to try anal and he eagerly jumped on that opportunity that same night and for the first time, his ED didn’t cut it short; he’d have to pause every so often to get his dick hard again but he came for the first time. It was the first time he seemed enthusiastic about sex so I asked him about it. He said he gravitates towards anal since his sexual trauma involved vaginal sex. He said he’s down for anal anytime. He hasn’t seemed really interested in penetrative sex until now. While I liked anal, I still prefer vaginal. He seemed down when he realized this. I feel bad because I understand where he’s coming from but I don’t think I’ll ever come from just anal (most of my orgasms involve g-spot stimulation). And this is the first time I’ve seen him enthused about penetrative sex with me and I don’t want to lose that. Any ideas as to how both our needs can be met?
TL;DR
Sexual trauma involving vaginal sex has made my bf gravitate towards anal. I prefer vaginal but this is the first time I’ve seen him enthused about penetrative sex with me. Any ideas as to how both our needs can be met?
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