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This isn’t in response to any relationship problems. We get along well and have thorough sex I really enjoy (a couple of rounds) once a week. His libido is higher than that. But I enjoy being close and sensual with him. So, blowjobs and the occasional quickie are in the mix when he is horny and I am less so.
He used to masturbate frequently and used porn as part of that. Now we are experimenting with reducing it and cutting his porn habit.
There are a couple of reasons. For example, one of his favorite porn genres has had some terrible incidents of exploitation and abuse behind the camera come to light. He would never intentionally watch that but it feels weird knowing it’s always a lurking possibility.
This was my idea initially but he has enjoyed the increased attention he’s getting as part of it. The main change is I’ve started lounging around or showing off for him while he jerks off, or taking over and doing it myself.
This is all going relatively well so far. I like the sense of casual but intimate closeness it’s added. But it hasn’t been long. I wonder if it will be sustainable in the future.
Has anyone tried this and can share their experience and advice?
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