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My husband and I have been sexually active for a few years now and for the first 6 months PIV did not hurt.
After 6 months piv sex started to hurt but it wasn’t really what it is now. It was uncomfortable and we had to avoid certain positions
Now, a few years later it hurts to insert, it hurts to thrust, it just hurts.
I get wet, we do foreplay. We don’t use lube really.
The only big thing that’s changed from the not so painful sex to the painful sex is that I now orgasm before we start piv because we wanted to ignite my sex drive and people reccomanded that but it’s hard to have a sex drive when sex just fucking hurts.
I’m debating on dropping orgasming before piv and using tons of lube and see if that helps, but if it doesn’t I’m out of ideas for what we can do to help out. I’m scared the more times we have unpleasant sex, the more my body will remember and reject him.
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