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I am a straight polyamorous female and I currently have 3 long term partners. They are all wonderful kind loving sweet men and we get along so well and we’re sexually compatible too. One of my partners though, he has a low libido, at least lower than mine and other men I’ve been with. I love him a lot and I really want to give him my love in different ways, but one way that i can’t is with sex. We are very sexually compatible when we do make love, he just doesn’t want to do it as much as I’d like. He has no issues with other physical contact, kissing, hugging, cuddling etc. He doesn’t think he has a low libido, but we spent the last month together exclusively and we only made love 1-2 times a week. When we first met, we had sex all the time. He does sometimes initiate it but most of the time it’s me. Obviously I don’t want to force him into anything but I feel frustrated. I try everything that’s worked in the past to seduce him and I try new things too, but it only works sometimes. I’ve tried to talk to him about it and he says he loves me and is attracted to me and that he loves making love to me but he won’t talk any more about it beyond that. He changes the subject or makes a joke or something, so I always drop it. I just don’t know what to do! I do believe that he loves me because like I said he shows me affection in other emotional and physical ways. I wonder if maybe it’s getting stale for him. Maybe the things that used to turn him on don’t turn him on anymore. So to all the men out there, I would like to get some ideas of new things to try. What are things that your woman does to turn you on and get you in the mood? Do things get stale for you if she keeps trying the same things? What things does she do that turn you off? Do you have any other advice? Please help!
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