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Hi all,
I created another account to ask this question and get some advice because my husband knows my real account. He and I are both in our early 30s and have been married for 5 years. We dated 5 years before that and he was the only guy I had ever been with.
Things changed after we were hanging out with a friend of his and we all got drunk and ended up having a 3some. It was genuinely an enjoyable experience for us and we repeated it several times with other friends of his. Unfortunately, I couldn’t help but compare the men I was sleeping with and my husband. To be blunt, he is a lot smaller in size than the rest and doesn’t last as long.
We continue to have sex a few times a week with just us and I find that I have become indifferent to it. It’s almost like I don’t think it’s worth the effort to get undressed, have sex, and clean myself up afterwards because the level of satisfaction that I get with him alone just isn’t there. I have tried spicing things up in the bedroom by bringing toys, talking about our fetishes, doing roleplay, etc but it’s not working.
I wish I didn’t feel this way. I wish that he and I never introduced other sexual partners into our relationship. But this is where we are now. I have no idea what to do. Do I talk to him? How do I tell him that he doesn’t measure up (literally and figuratively) to his friends without emasculating him. Or should I just suck it up and let things play out as they are? I’m worried about keeping this inside me though because it may just lead to negative repressed feelings against him.
Any suggestions would be welcome. Thank you everyone.
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