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The guy I’ve been dating for 2.5 months can’t keep it up for penetration. We haven’t had actual sex yet because of it. He’ll get rock hard while spooning and if I give him a bj but when it comes time to put it in it does the opposite.
There have been a few attempts and I’ve suggested that we give us a break or just be friends. He told me that he doesn’t want to be my friend he wants us to be together but said he’s struggling with low-self esteem because he thinks I’m out of his league and that’s affecting his performance. I asked him if this was an issue in his past relationships and he said no because he thought the girls were in his league.
I’ve reassured him that I like him, find him attractive, and that I do desire sex with him. Then I told him he doesn’t need to be in his head because that’s not helping him. I’ve been patient with him in regards to sex but it’s becoming difficult for me now because I have a high sex drive and I’m not sure his performance anxiety will improve. He’s a great guy otherwise and treats me like a princess but the lack of sex is impacting my happiness. He said I’m too good for him and that he still can’t believe I even gave him a chance. He said this situation is embarrassing for him and it’s making him feel like less of a man since it hasn’t happened before and he doesn’t want to lose me.
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