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ok so, ive been actively using an array of toys to try and master orgasms lately and i feel like im just not getting it. most of the time, i typically have this great build up where im sure im getting there, but then when it happens its like 2 seconds of warm good feeling and then a few pelvic throbs and its done. but i do feel sensitive after which makes me think thats..something? and then occasionally if i drag it out i might have like 3-4 seconds of a really nice warm pool of pleasure in my groin but again, its just followed by a few intense muscle spasms and thats it. i just feel like its not happening the way its meant to? everything points to the fact that im reaching some kind of climax but it almost feels like my muscles are clenching too much or im pushing it down, even though im actively trying to relax. also i always need to pee immediately after, and i am always drenched immediately after. am i like, getting close? am i having orgasms but theyre just not very good? im using pretty nice vibrators and it certainly does feel like i finished something but its just..not..that pleasurable? and only a few seconds? i read that i should try to push through even longer but honestly it just ends up being another 10 seconds of oversensitivity and uncomfortable pulsing so it seems like its not that im stopping too early. im so frustrated, i just want the good ending. help?
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